There's a good chance the guy you are dating has had sex with one of his female friends. For men it’s easier to have sex with someone they already know because men can have sex...for sex. They can detach their emotions and enjoy the pleasure of having sex. Women will have sex with a friend and stand a greater chance of being attached to their friend.
that you complain too much
Men don't like to hear women complain. It could be about your coworkers, your clothes or how fat you believe you to be. As you begin to complain he will shut you off or put the phone down until you finish complaining. Remember girls...he's not your girlfriend.... he is the guy who wants to care for you and love you and eventually build a relationship with you. If you can cut the crap and say " This girl made me mad when she cut me off in the freeway" and end it there. If you ramble on about how you were talking to your friends while on the phone driving and you were signaling to enter the next lane and how you were thinking about the new dress you just bought.... He does not care...just get to the point. Men love direct one-liners. He will pay attention to you once you get to the point. That eliminates your complaining and makes him feel that you paid attention.
that a friend of yours is hot or a b*tch
He will not ever tell you what he thinks of your friends no matter how positive the compliment may be. He knows you will begin to question it. "Does he want to hook up with her now that he told me he thinks she takes care of herself?" Is he trying to tell me something?" He knows you will just start nagging on him about a simple comment he made regarding one of your friends. If it’s a negative comment then you will begin to question him as a person and you will get defensive for your friends. He feels he will lose the battle if he just keeps his mouth shut.
that he is broke
He may be living paycheck to paycheck but he does not want you to know about that. He will say that he is paying his bills on time and that is about it. He may even rack up a credit card trying to take you out just because he does not want you to think that he has no more when in reality he has no money to spend. If you have a guy that works at a minimum wage job then try to compromise by saying that you are not in the mood to go out so he can save his pennies.
that you do look fat
It’s the age-old comment that every woman seems to fear...the truth. I remember one time when I was gaining weight I noticed I was not looking fit and in shape. I once mentioned to a guy how I saw I had a little belly and he said how he noticed that in the past but didn't say anything. I knew at that point that he had noticed my weight gain but did not want to say anything until I mentioned it. The difference though is that I agreed to the fact of my weight gain and that gave him open invitation to comment on it versus a women asking if she is fat and him fearing she will get emotional if he says yes to her question.
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