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Thursday, December 1, 2011

Scorpio horoscope for December 2011



December 2011



Mars will still be traveling in your 11th house of friendships throughout this month and will remain there for another 7 months. You may spend time with friends but you may also argue with a friend. It could be that you are spending time with a new friend, group or organization. You will also see an increase of invites from people so get out and mingle.



It's all about friends, groups and organizations on December 2, 4, 5th and 31st. You may attend a special event or party. You are social and will make new friends. It's time to get out and enjoy spending time with groups and organizations. Connect with old friends and see what they have been up to. Get out and explore new places and possibilities as you may run into new people and neighbors.



On December 1, 8, 26th and 28th short trips, communication, transportation, sibling and neighbor are highlighted on these dates. You may take a short trip to visit family and friends. It could be you decide to purchase a vehicle, computer, cell phone or telephone. Communication increases via emails, text messages and phone calls. You are social and outgoing and may connect well with neighbors and siblings.



Uranus goes direct on December 9th from your 6th house of work, service and health. You can expect to see an increase of work projects, tasks and chores. Your work schedule may be erratic and unpredictable. There may be many tasks and projects that come at you unexpectedly. You may suffer from stress and anxiety.



Mercury goes direct on December 13th from your 2nd house of earned income. The next few weeks may help you see an increase of money. You may apply for a job or submit a resume. You may receive a job offer or opportunity to make money. You will also focus on building financial security and stability for your future.



Venus enters your fourth house of home on December 20thThe next four weeks will bring a time for you to relocate, renovate or make some changes around the home. It could be a time for you to look for new place to live. You may also decide to decorate and design around the home or a room. You may purchase new furniture or purchase home accents to decorate a sofa, bed or room. It is a time for you to paint and draw or decorate in the home.



The Sun enters your third house of short trips, communication, siblings and neighbors on December 21st giving you four weeks to take short trips around town and nearby out-of-town and to receive an increase of communication via e-mails, text messages and phone calls.



Jupiter goes direct on December 25th from your partnership house. The next 6 months will give you the opportunity to work with others to further your career, finances, education or personal relationships. You may form a partnership or relationship. it's also time to compromise and work out any issues or problems with a partner. You are willing to collaborate with other people to get ahead and succeed. You may surround yourself with successful people too.



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The full moon lunar eclipse on December 10th will fall in your 8th house of joint resources, taxes, credit cards and loans. The next six months will bring a time for you to take care of financial obligations and duties connected to others. You may take a loan or deal with financial issues connected to taxes, credit cards and loans. It is a time for you to focus on other obligations including child support, alimony, gifts and rewards. You may gain through a bonus or commission. Saturn supports the eclipse from your 12th house of secrets and solitude which could bring a time for you to worry about money or feel like you are not making enough money even though you could be bringing in enough financially. Neptune supports the eclipse from your fourth house of home. It could be that you are seeking a loan to get a new home. You may be charging up the credit cards to decorate and furnish the home. It may be time for you to gain financially through other resources especially through roommates and friends. Mars squares the eclipse from your 11th house of friendships. There may be some disagreements or arguments with a female including friends, roommates, spouse, partner or lover. If you are in the process of a divorce then expect the next six months to be a battle as you will experience disagreements and arguments over joint assets and resources. I know it can be a difficult time as a full Moon lunar eclipse can make you quite sensitive and emotional. You just have to handle it one step at a time.



Work projects, schedules and chores may be a bit chaotic on December 12, 18th and 22nd. There may be problems with the internet, office equipment, coworkers, employees, clients and customers. You may be experiencing stress and anxiety over an increase of tasks and projects. I know this can be a difficult time so you need to do your best to handle tasks one at a time.



You give more of yourself to a partner on December 6, 12, 21st and 22nd. You may form a partnership or meet someone special. You may work with others to further your career, finances or relationships. A partner may be a spouse, lover, friend, business partner, employee, therapist, accountant, doctor or lawyer. It is a time for you to compromise rather than to fight against other people around you.



The new Moon on December 24th will fall in your third house of short trips, communication, transportation, siblings and neighbors. The next two weeks will bring the opportunity for you to take a short trip to visit family and friends. It may be an unexpected short trip. Communication increases to siblings, neighbors, family and friends especially through e-mails, text messages and phone calls. You are social and are open to connecting to the people around you. You could also purchase a vehicle, computer, cell phone or telephone. Pluto supports the new Moon from your third house of communication which brings great intensity and how you connect and communicate with others. Jupiter supports the new Moon from your partnership house each tells me you will be working closely with others whether for your career, finances, education or relationship. Uranus squares the new Moon from your 6th house of work, service and health. You may be feeling a bit stressed and anxious to get work done as you may see an increase of task and projects. I feel the new Moon will be great or you to connect with other people and to get projects done at home or at work. It could relate to the Internet, transportation, e-mails and phone calls. If you are in sales then the next two weeks would work great for you as you should see an increase of sales and transactions. I feel this would be a great time for you to get yourself out there and salad yourself.



As the year comes to an end you will begin to focus more on your own personal wants and needs. You will still find yourself worrying about finances and may be feeling a sense of compassion over finances and financial obligations. You have to take everything one step at a time in you will be able to manage all your projects and issues clearly. Saturn will enter your own sign in October 2012 which will bring you two years to focus on what matters most to you and what will make you happy. Right now it's time to reflect and get rid of what you don't need in your life including unhealthy people and habits. You will see an increase of work projects and your health may suffer at the same time so you want to learn ways to meditate and get rid of any stress or anxiety you may be experiencing throughout the year. You will be social and will meet new friends and connect well with current friends. People will invite you to events and parties and you would do well connecting with new groups and organizations. Socialize and mingle with new people as they could bring you a great connection in the future. Good luck.



Cynthia



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Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Friendships with Benefits

Friendships With Benefits





I know for many of out there this will be a sensitive topic. The reason being because you may be caught in the middle of this type of relationship. A friendship with benefits is a relationship were you are friends with someone whom you would to be more romantically involved but your stuck in the middle. The middle point being sexual. You have the connection of being friendly towards each other, hanging out, having many things in common but no romantic relationship or commitment. Then every so often you both cross the boundary and be sexually or intimate with each other. Many times there is one person who wants this friendly sexual interlude to turn into a serious relationship. For the most part its a female who gets easily attached to the man and hopes one day by giving a intimate part of herself it will one day turn into a serious relationship. Many times it does not.



Men can separate sex from intimacy. For men sex can simply mean sex, nothing more nothing else. It just adds extra kudos that its someone they already know and they don't have to try so hard to impress. I remember asking a guy when was the last time he had sex and his answer was "three weeks ago" then he replies "but it was with a friend". Then as I continue talking to him I ask him "when was the last time you went out on a date" and his reply was " two years ago". Doesn't that make you think " Hmmm let me add the math here" How can this guy just have sex with a friend and yet went out on a real date two years ago. Simple! He didn't see his friend whom he had sex with as someone he really wanted to be romantically involved, she was a friend who he had sex with. There was another guy who later became my boyfriend I remember asking him when was the last time he had sex and his response was " a year ago...with a friend" Then I asked him when he went out on a date and he said " three years ago". These are not made up answers, by the way, these are facts.



If you are caught in a "friendship with benefits" type of relationship and you want it to get more serious then you will want to ask some important questions to your friend. For example







  • How do you see me?





  • If I am your friend then why are we having sex?





  • Do you like me only as a friend?





You have to take the chance and approach this person about your greatest concern because majority of the time I have noticed with many out there that if your caught in a friendship with benefits type of relationship you stand a good chance it will not turn into anything else but a friendship with sex. You can take control of this situation by not being sexually involved with this person. If they still like you and want to spend time with you with no sex then this can be someone of importance that can turn into a romantic relationship. If you noticed this person pulling away your first reaction will be to give in, but your just making it easy for them. You need to stand up for yourself and let them know " if your just looking for a friendship with benefits then it wont be with me". This person will compromise when they see how much you mean to them. They will compromise. I keep repeating it because you need to give yourself proper respect. You are a good person and don't need to settle. If you ever feel that your friendship is in question you can always call me and we can talk about this issue.



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